Two years in the blogging world

Who have thought? I came this far! Nyay.. I received a notification that today is my two year anniversary in writing my blogs in WordPress.

Time flies (for real) I start writing blogs way back when I was in Norway. It was just for fun or should I say I was bored. But, I really love writing. I’m not really good at it. But I just love it, like a hobby . My first Blog was all about Mindanao. It’s a place in the southern part of the Philippines. A picture of me when I went home for a christmas vacation. It was like a beach picture watching the sunset and the place where me and my classmates in College usually spend time after break time or after cutting classes. 🙊😅 It’s just the same view with sunset and day time scenery. I could never guess, it was the popular liked blogs I have. I got 145 likes to that! When I noticed that people starts liking it and dropping their comments. I was a bit nervous at the first time. I told myself. I’m really in trouble. I was just writing my thoughts and opinion. I don’t really have like a website references . I just write what I like and feel. That’s really awesome about blogging. You decide what you write and feel. You don’t have to impress readers coz I’m only impressing myself. Kidding 😀😅

I was born and raised in Mindanao and stay there for almost my whole existence until I embarked my journey in Europe. It was just a simple try out writing. It was not really a full detailed article. I told myself, “Ah, I will just write something that I really like.

For me, its kinda a diary of myself. I express my thoughts and emotions on it. My optimistic side. My perception about life and some stuffs. Perhaps the other side of me.

And now, I don’t really post a lot of blogs . I’m not really kinda busy person.🙈 I’m just having some slow time coping up some things right now. 🙊😅And I’m still stuck with my nature obsession. Well, that’s what all started. But, I am trying. And I will still try to write more and share things with you guys.

To my followers and having their time dropping by,reading my comments and saying hello and encouraging me and appreciating all the silly stuff I wrote. Thank you everyone! I am not be in my two year anniversary today without all of you guys! You’re time and awesome comments means a lot .

Keep smiling everyone! JUST LIVE 💕


Miesel 💓


Spring rollin 🌼

Another year has arrived and another season takes over. What is your favorite season by the way? I loved all the seasons but I’m a huge fan of Ms. Spring. I just love it. I’m very obssesed with flowers though.

Spring has been so early this year. It was like early January when I noticed some small flowers blooming in the garden. Pretty early compared to last year.

I can’t wait to see all the flowers in full bloom 🌼

Last winter in Skåne 💓

YESSSS! Few days of winter has arrived. And I’m lovin it for real. Way back from November last year.I have been wishing some snow fall in any moment of those days. Unluckily, no snow fall and no winter wonderland feels. I went to Strängnäs for Christmas and New year. The day I arrived was the day when the snowfall stopped. Literally,it’s winter but everything is frozen and hard as ice and cold.

The winter last year also did not take so long. Five days of snow and it melted. And now another few days of white snow fall and it’s enough. I could not explain how happy I am like a kid.

“I prefer winter and fall, when you feel the bone structure of the landscape — the loneliness of it; the dead feeling of winter. Something waits beneath it, the whole story doesn’t show.”

– Andrew Wyeth

“To appreciate the beauty of a snowflake it is necessary to stand out in the cold.”

– Aristotle

“I wonder if the snow loves the trees and fields that it kisses them so gently? And then it covers them up snug, you know, with a white quilt; and perhaps it says, ‘Go to sleep, darlings, till the summer comes again.'”

– Lewis Carroll

Probably my (our) last winter in Skåne! 💓

We’ll Miss this place for sure 💓 BUT WE’LL KEEP ALL THOSE GOOD MEMORIES AS WE COULD. ABI GAIL will be moving in Belgium to continue her au pair adventures . As I am heading back home to the Philippines for good.



FALLen Leaves

Last year, I also made a blog about autumn in Skåne(but some pictures in the area I lived) But this year,it was totally different. I visited few places that i didn’t visit before and be able to take my bicycle with me chasing some leaves instead of sunset. If you’re a nature lover, you don’t just feel the amazement or the wow feeling about some certain things. You feel like being connected that’s there’s really something that connects you to it. Something surreal that you can almost cry and imagine life would be much more easier. Some people have this thing called “Autumn depression ” when suddenly the surrounding turns grey and all of the sudden the sun will not showed up. But the best thing about autumn is that when the sun comes out and the rays from it strikes to the dying coloured leaves.It gives more life. It adds more colours. It’s gives more hope. And it added some pinch of happiness that we as individuals are longing to. It gives light,a new perspective about life that not every dying leaves are genuinely dying. They’re dying for purpose. And that purpose is to prepare it selves to embrace and be ready for another season.

So now, I’m sharing how Skåne county attributes its autumns beauty to some expat and explorer around the area.


Torup nature reservation area 🍂

The area I lived in 🍂 A PUBLIC PARK IN MALMÖ (I’m not really familiar with their designated names but I will not surely be lost there 😆)

I’m sure there still more beautiful places to explore aside from these places I visited to. As they said “Beauty is in the of the beholder ” It depends how you see things in your own naked eyes. That beauty doesn’t exist on its own but created by observers.

It’s not how stormy the day was, how sunny it could be. How a flower bloomed or how the autumn leaves fall. Some people might find it not nice at all. And some may seem find it as a gem. After all, what is important is we try to see things in a way that we like it. If you see things differently and consider it as something special then be it. We need more people in these world who will help other people to see beyond that object, beyond that piece.If you see start seeing things in a beautiful way. Imagine how beautiful the world is. Because there’s always always always a beauty of everything.


10 things happen meeting a good guy after a toxic relationship 

When you are in a toxic relationship you don’t realize how much the emotional abuse impacts you. Not while you’re in it at least. When you’re in a toxic relationship, everything about it is kind of addicting. It’s the knowing and not knowing what’s going to happen. It’s the hope that’ll it’ll change but there’s also comfort in things that are the same. There’s a comfort in someone knowing you so deeply.

And it takes everything in you to not walk away. And even when you walk away, you find yourself going back so many times because you miss him. You miss the adrenaline rush of high intense emotions. From love to screaming to making up.

But then you meet a good guy. And when that happens that’s when you realize how negatively this past relationship has affected you. And sometimes you even push people away because of it.
You aren’t used to being treated so well, you almost reject it.
1. At first, you expect the worst.

After a toxic relationship, you don’t trust anyone. Even yourself. You wonder how you tolerated such a relationship for so long. And you enter every relationship expecting the worst of someone. For a while, you don’t believe good guys do exist. Because for so long you looked for the wrong qualities and you accepted a lot of these people who didn’t deserve you.

2. And overthink everything.

You think everyone has motives or doesn’t mean what they say. When you’ve caught someone in lies so often it makes you paranoid as fuck. You don’t believe people can be honest or mean what they say. You make crazy assumptions and doubt really good people just because of one person.
Next thing you know you’re explaining to this guy how you got to this conclusion in your head and he’s baffled. Not because you’ve questioned him but that someone has made you this way and all he wants to do is reverse this.

3. You’ll think he’s too good to be true.
Someone treating you this well has got to be too good to be true. You’re expecting the other shoe to drop. You’re expecting him to lose it one day. You’re expecting some abrupt ending without closure. But every day he just proves to you he’s the same person he’s been from the start. He’s given you no reason to question him but it isn’t him you don’t trust it’s everyone in the past.

4. After you push him away.

Someone in the past has led you to believe you don’t deserve the best. So when you get it you reject it. You fear something good because you don’t want to lose it. You don’t want to get hurt again so you try and ruin it first. But what you’ll realize that’s different about this guy is when you run he’ll chase you. When you push him he’ll grab you close and not let you leave.

5. You’re going to expect fights.
You keep waiting for a fight. But instead, everything gets talked out and explained. And there’s this wave of comfort afterward and you realize normal people don’t leave the second something goes wrong.

6. Then you’ll apologize too often.
He’s going to wonder why you apologize so often or what it is you’re saying sorry for. He’ll see the pain in your eyes from someone in the past whose made you question yourself. He’ll see the pain in your heart trying so hard to love again when you’ve only known heartbreak. And he’s going to constantly reassure you everything is okay.
When a good guy loves someone who is broken who has only known toxic relationships, what he does is teach her she didn’t deserve anything she got. He redefines these horrible standards she has and he chooses to be the exception.

7. And question if they are better off without you.

You think they are better off without you but the truth is just as they have made your life better it goes both ways. And I know you’re scared to love again. I know you’re afraid to let anyone that close. But your sensitivity. Your compassion. Your strength and understanding and lack of judgment in everyone is what makes you beautiful.
This new relationship isn’t what you are used to but it’s exactly what you deserve.

8. You overcompensate.
And when you finally get comfortable and accept this relationship you are going to love this person with everything you have in you. But don’t try too hard. Don’t think you have to. In the past, you were taught your best isn’t good enough. So you had to try too hard. You had to compete. You had to prove yourself.
What you should have learned was your best was good enough and it was him that didn’t deserve it.

9. Then you trust him.
There’s going to be a moment where you tell this guy everything that’s happened. A moment you trust him to let him that close. And when you tell him about the past and the people who have hurt you what you’ll find isn’t that’s he’s going to take off. It’s just given him a reason to stay.
I know someone in your past taught you about tough love. They taught you vulnerability is a weakness. You’ve had to be strong for so long and you’ve had to endure a lot of things you didn’t deserve. But all of it has made you more beautiful than you know. And all of it will make the right person appreciate you for overcoming all of it.

And with tears in your eyes even you will be grateful for a toxic relationship that didn’t destroy you but rather made you the strong person you are today.

10. Finally you learn what love really is.

You begin to realize that relationship that used to define your standard of love was so far from the real thing. You learn that love isn’t supposed to hurt you or be demeaning. Love isn’t supposed to break your heart just to build you back up. Love is not anything that comes in the form of jealousy. Whether it’s making you jealous or being jealous of you. The right type of love does not play games with your heart or want to see you in pain.
You realize all of that wasn’t love but control.
You build yourself back up and fearlessly love again, only this time you do it right.

The right type of love heals you and that’s exactly what this guy has done.

10 Things That Happen Meeting A Good Guy After A Toxic Relationship


Better days are coming 

They said great things take time! 

Surely is 👌🏾 

Have you been in a situation wherein you’re trying to do your best, giving your perfect shot? but still it doesn’t work the way you expected to, the way you want it, the way you figure it out and the way you planned it. It’s quite stressing isn’t it? You feel horrible and self pity about your self , about the situation you are into. That feeling of being helpless and hopeless. 

Because there are just things in life that you can’t force to happen. No matter how eager and determined you are. It takes SOME REAL TIME IN YOUR ON TIME. I mean, I believe everything happens for a REASON. And whatever it is just let it go. Let the time work on it. Don’t force it. You can’t force a flower to bloom on winter time. Can you? You can’t force the snow to pour down on summertime. Make sense! 

They said try and try until you succeed.Well, it needs self control,determination, eagerness, patience and a brave heart. If you really want something you really need to work on it. Nothing comes so easy these days. You really need to work your ass so hard to make it happen. But if things go wrong. Just don’t give up! Better days are coming. And if that will come. I’m sure it will be all yours. YOURS! 
The thought that so many people seem to miss is that happiness doesn’t start with a relationship, a college degree or a job. It starts with your thoughts and what you tell your self everyday. Like EVERYDAY 👌🏾

LIFE is not a competition. We don’t have this deadline to accomplish our works in life. We just have to live and live. 


A sunny morning with the neighbors cat 

So my holiday just started last Thursday but today is the beginning of everything. So, I’m staying in Strängnäs for a week with my family. 

7 deg C and it feels like summer.

Here comes lil crucos trying to amazed me with its beauty early in the morning with some great sunshine. 

It’s not windy like in SKåne (Southern part of Sweden) I woke up quiet early today since my niece was an alarm clock. Kicking me all the way and crawling back and forth. 

I can’t help it! These munchkin is such a cutie ♥️ Well, we never seen each other for three months. She’s definitely missing me a lot (hopefully yes) 😴 KIDS ARE KIDS 💩

We went playing in the garden then here comes our uninvited visitor visiting us. 

The neighbors cat X😻x😽 I think she/he is ready for some tan 😂😁🙄😅 

I think she really loves this cat. And I hope she’ll have one, one day (SOON) Auntie Miessy will be happy too. Well, I prefer a dog. 

Hope you all have a great day with a lot of sunshine ☀️ 

Hugs from us 💕